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Yes! I'm 20 and it's my first time on the beach

There's always a first time for everything right? It's funny how I've lived close to 21 years on this earth and just last weekend was the first time I visited the beach. Oh yeah, I can only imagine what's going through your mind right now. The thing is, for the most part of my life, I stayed in Abuja, Nigeria and there are no beaches in that city. But luckily, I had the opportunity to stay with my cousin in Lagos this year and that was already a sign for me because there are several beaches in Lagos.  I had stayed in Lagos for close to seven months now and I still had not visited the beach. What! How could I have misused this opportunity? Alright, let me calm down a bit and explain (I'm sure literally everyone knows this already but I'll still explain regardless). We are currently going through a pandemic and it hadn't been too long that businesses and recreational centres started opening up in my country. But I had to act fast though, because schools will d...

Overwhelmed

Have you ever felt the need to cut everyone off and just be on your own? Do you ever get lost in your thoughts and feel the need to travel far away or perhaps just a change of environment? Have you ever felt so overwhelmed that it seems like you're suffocating? Has there been a point in your life where you lost every form of enthusiasm or you suddenly feel reluctant to do the things that initially brought you joy?  Alright, let's all take a quick pause. I'm not here to ask series of rhetorical questions. Truth is, I'm actually here to help. If you can relate to all, or some of the questions I asked in the first paragraph, then you're not alone. You know why? Because I've been there too. We all go through these kind of phases in our lives. In fact, if this would make you feel any better, that's the point I was when I started writing this blog post. Stay with me? Prolonged unproductivity. I think that's the best way I would describe what I had been going t...

Oh! Look who we have here

Yippeee! I'm so excited! This is my first blog post guys. *Mentally does back flip that I can never try in real life* Would you believe if I told you that I didn't have any plans on opening this blog yesterday? Well, I can't totally say it was impromptu because I had decided to open a blog after two of my friends talked me into it. And I thought, of course, why not? That should be a good idea. I mean, writing is something I've always loved to do and it would be a brilliant way to share my thoughts. I wonder why I had not thought about it earlier. Oh wait a minute! I actually did, but there was this archaic mindset, amongst some other things that clouded my mind (I'll spare you the details for now, maybe there will be need to write more about it some other time, lol).  Few minutes before opening this blog, I had been beating myself up about the numerous things I had to do but still didn't have zeal to do any of it. Trust me, I wasn't in the right frame of min...